Dude, I am on record many times defending gay people. Mostly because the older I get and the more gay people I have been around I really feel that gay guys got an extra shot of estrogen in their chromosomes and gay women got an extra shot of testosterone and that's all there is to it. Believing that as I do, I have a really hard time with people hating gays because I don't think they have much say in the matter if any. Once again it's only my opinion, but it makes a lot of sense....to me at least. Especially when I think, why do so many effeminate gay men have the same speech and body mannerism patterns, especially from an early age? They sure as hell didn't sit at home and practice them or go to gay meetings to figure out how they are supposed to act.