Another FAFO but this should be a little more polarizing because of who's involved etc. Let's be adults:
Personally, I think there probably needs to be a little more context but she said he called her those names over the phone and then she showed up to his property and started the physical altercation obviously thinking that she was untouchable. On the other hand, she was quite a bit smaller and I don't think he needed to Judo slam her to the concrete that hard, simply because she could have been seriously injured. She wasn't that much of a threat for that type of force IMO. In the heat of the moment, he may have just been thinking about getting her to the ground and the adrenaline just kicked in, so this is a tough one.
@DBS1970 gonna have a goddamned field day on this one. buckle up.