A few years ago you'd have already been gone, but Coolie is getting softer with age.
It could be that Coolie has a sense of humor and is sufficiently comfortable in his manhood where he can joke about it. Perhaps he can even trade insults w/o getting offended.
OR
He could have used his administration-level privilege to ping my ISP on the times where I purposely turned off my VPN and is aware that the venom and name calling spewed my way is woefully misdirected, and is quietly chuckling along with me at the mindless torch-bearing, pitchfork-wielding angry mob as they predictably pile on.