Well, let me restate (again) in for you a more relevant context. Belichik has about as much control over Alfonzo Dennard's decision to get drunk and jump behind the wheel of his car (twice), as Tomlin had over Bell and Blount's decision to spark one up on the way to the mall. Which is none.
Again, in case you actually missed the point and are not just ignoring it, the point is that all teams have to put up with the stupid off field ****, including the Pats*.
YOU quoted Skott's post and put in boldface the part about the players respecting the coach. YOU insinuated that Belichick's players don't respect him, but the examples are very different. Off-field decisions involving models and strippers have nothing to do with disrespecting the coach, whereas getting caught with marijuana two hours before the team plane's departure, or walking out on the team before a game is over are sure signs of a lack of respect for your job and your boss (aka Mike Tomlin).
The point is there is a clear difference; you shouldn't lump it all together in one category, yet you continue to do so.