I love this comment.
I was the same person, as your brother-in-law. Chasing money and fancy titles.
I don't want to make this a religious thing, but, it is so please - give me a pardon as I provide more context.
While I doing all that 'paper chasing' - I forgot about how I got there and who allowed me to get there. The Man Upstairs. God knocked me smack into the dirt back in April and He's been teaching me exactly what
@slashsteel stated. I've applied with nearly 300 companies, and just this week, doors are opening for interviews. Yes, the money is much less, but over the past month and a half, the state of Utah caught up with me and garnished over a grand from my checks every 2 weeks - guy punch us, but we've learned to live with less income and both opportunities are right there where my lessened income has been.
I'm done with the chase. My feet are grounded and I'm ready to live a simpler life!!!