Here's what I have always found funny about people being surprised by gay guys having lots of sexual partners. How many sexual partners do you figure the average straight guy would have in a lifetime if the vast majority of women walking around were horny 24 hours a day like men and were perfectly fine with having casual sex at any given moment like men? There wouldn't be a straight guy alive that didn't have 1,000 sexual partners and they are lying if they say different. It's a matter of testosterone more than sexual deviance. Fortunately for them probably, women are more restrained and think things through more carefully when it comes to sex. Otherwise society would probably collapse on itself from people doing nothing other than having sex with random strangers all day long.
No, it's a matter of self control and self respect. It is CLEARLY a matter of sexual deviance. I'm a straight man with desires and testosterone. Just because you evidently can't control yourself, don't lump us all in there.