I'm just thick skinned I guess. I do see a difference if someone takes offense vs doesn't take offense to a racial slur issued. No offense, no harm, no foul. Move on...
I also don't see how it can all be Tomlin's fault. I just don't. It's not always the parent's fault when a kid goes bad. It's not the teacher's fault a kid won't learn. It's up to the individual on how they want to live their life, and AB is living in his own world.
Plus all I hear from Gruden, is poor misunderstood AB. If that ain't the most pussified approach to this child, I don't know what is. At least with Tomlin, he's all about teaching responsibility for your actions, and being a man. AB couldn't handle the man to man talk, or accept responsibility for his actions in any form of discipline.
Diciplined by the Steelers - Walk out on the team.
Fined by the Raiders - Nearly blow up his contract
Un ******* real...