I try not to respond to trolls, particularly obnoxious ones like yourself. You're like a gnat buzzing around overhead, just out of reach of the fly swatter.
I'll answer your question, since I feel sorry for you. That's a shitload of OCD to be dealing with. I was in Denver last year for a funeral and visited friends in Pueblo and Albuquerque. Took a trip to Texas to see my brother the year before. My parents had moved to Cleveland (of all places) from CA a while back, went to see them a few times, as well as trips to the 'Burgh, NY, Philly, and back home to CA. Since I've been out here, I've tried to get back every other year or so, depending on finances. Early on, I travelled more frequently, when I worked for a company based in DC.
Other than that, perfectly happy to be living and working in Europe, particularly these last four years. Seeing what's happened to the American psyche hasn't been pretty. The effect of Trumpism, the way we behave and interact, has been profound. None more evident than right here on this board. More than anything, the utter hypocrisy of the Trump base has been breathtaking. If Barry had done 0.1% of the crap Trump does on a daily basis, this place would have gone haywire. It's like you've all been blinded by the glow of the fake orange tan.
Hope things get back to normal in 2024, or whenever Trump gets airlifted - like an tranquilized hippo - out of the WH.
Now, hopefully you can get off my nuts and find something new to obsess over, but I doubt it. You've joined the peanut gallery of unhinged, chit-chattering trolls on the board. The ****-slinging howling monkeys, as I like to call them. Sad to see, you seemed decent enough early on.