to me, Ben is on a team. He is the team leader by being there for a loooong time. he may not speak as a leader, but, if not, he should at least lead by example. Taking vaca and missing team activities is not leading by example. So maybe he speaks as a leader and guides the team. I don't know and nether do others on this site. But, I do know I would like a smarter coach, and for Ben and the other players to give a **** about the team, instead of themselves as individuals.