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Berm it's amazing to me that some people can't see it, maybe it's tunnel vision and they've never experienced it firsthand?"Living in "Black skin" and being a black man, in America, is an EVERY DAY STRUGGLE”
Not sure that applies to every black person Berm. If you feel that way I will take your word for it."
I stand by my post. Here's why...
Racism comes on multiple forms. Blatant and microaggresive. You are very correct, it's not just a white and black thing, anyone can see one of these two types "on the regular" or at least once in their lifetime.
We, Blacks, have been taught and raised to "make sure you don't upset Mr. Charlie" by our grandparents and that crazy aunt or uncle. Yes, even those that have been born with a silver spoon in their mouth too. For those of us who care about our families, friends and jobs - there is a definite set of rules, if you will, obviously, that we have to live by as not to been seen as a "thug". Literally, we walk on proverbial eggshells on a daily basis. There's much more to this that can be said, but I'll stop here.
I really enjoy your willingness to hear me out and learn my viewpoints. I'm not alone but I'm also no longer willing to stand by and let Karen or Bob ruin my joy.
Will I be seen as a racist by some because I stand up for equality? Probably; but, I could care less. I can only worry about the things in my orbit...
I used to live in a small town with some racist *** cops when I was growing up
Being an open-minded guy I had several friends of many differing complexions, why not? I like people til they give me a reason not to
The number of times I got pulled over dramatically increased simply because I had certain friends riding with me...they just knew we had to be up to no good...obviously as what other explanation could there be (complete sarcasm for those in the back of the class)
Wish the world were different and personally I try to exemplify the change I want to see every day because with all of the problems we face complexion differences sure as hell don't need to be one, but unfortunately still are.
so "excuse my complexion, but can I go that direction?" is a question nobody should ever have to ask