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Actually remember that there is NO criminality to sexual harassment. You can't go to jail. And the burden of sexual assault would be a lot more than grabbing someone's *** during a picture.
This really has nothing to do with criminal acts and everything to do with just being a jerk to women and treating them like sexual objects.
That said, I have a few other comments/thoughts:
1. I don't think this SHOULD be criminal. I don't want the police to go around arresting every guy that's a jerk/*** to women. That's going too far.
2. Guys don't act this way unless it has worked before. Somewhere in all these *******'s pasts, this treatment of women has gotten them blowjobs, handjobs, sex and who knows what else.
3. The system is not set up well for women to SHARE their experiences of ******* men with each other. They have a tendency to internalize the event (even if they reject the sexual attempt) and keep it to themselves.
4. Because #2 and #3 exist and ******* men rarely have ramifications of their ******* sexual advances, they take the "shotgun" approach to getting sexual gratification. They basically tell themselves if I try this on 5-6 women, one is going to say yes and have sex with me.
I mean, even if you take out the sexual harassment aspect of it (i.e. workplace environment, one person with power over the other, etc.), I know of and have seen men hit on women this way. Treat them like ****, invade their spaces, act crude AND still succeed in walking out of the bar with them at night. Sometimes just throwing around free drinks and acting like you own the joint is enough. Hell, that's what Ben Roethlisberger and Willie Colon were doing in Mellville for crying out loud. And we knew from that story that she and her group FOLLOWED Roethlisberger and his group from bar to bar to bar looking for free drinks and a good time.
I mean, when you look at the story(s) about Al Franken those are NOT sexual harassment (he did not work with either person or was their equal, did not play quid pro quo with sexual favors, did not threaten work related retaliation, etc.). What Al Franken did was just a guy hitting on women in an extremely arrogant and obnoxious way that included some inappropriate touching (although to say that rises to the level of sexual assault is probably a stretch).
Ask any woman how many times she was hit on by an obnoxious guy that inappropriately touched her in the process and you probably get more than they can count on their fingers and toes. Right ladies?