Agree, OFTB. think he just lost it...black out or whatever...
Im not against discipline, but this is beyond that, as the child is young.
I got beat with a belt or a hand. Have had welts on my back, ***, and legs...wasn't fun, most weren't justified. Dad was drunk most of time. I know he didn't mean it, but it made my young life hell. Made me shy, insecure, and non caring...about my self.
I have spanked my children, twice with my oldest and once with youngest. Open hand on a clothed ***.
I talked with them all the time. about anything and everything. I was always there when they failed and succeeded. They were and are my life. I never ever wanted them to experience the childhood I had. The thing my dad did that hurt worse than any whipping, was not being there for me. My games, my school functions, etc...he was to busy drinking
The greatest thing I've ever accomplished in my life is raising to great boys. By being there, being open and honest about everything, and about talking with them how people should treat one another. I'm very proud of my sons.
sorry about rambling...this thread isn't about my life...