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Just this week I have had my back rubbed once while I was working by a woman in the office and also a few times last week. She has also rubbed my chest several times when I walk past her and has made countless sexual comments to me. I don't encourage her but I don't freak out about it either. I won't report it to my superiors, but if I did they would laugh their ***** off and say "get the **** out of here". Partly because I am a male, but also because it's well known at work and is an office joke that she is kind of nutty and has no professional boundaries. It doesn't demoralize me or make me feel like less of a person. It makes me feel like she has some issues.
All of this you have described should not be taking place in a work setting. I understand the inside jokes and being situationally aware of who you can say what to, but putting hands on someone is wrong man or woman. I get you don't feel demoralized or less than, I wouldn't either, but what I don't do is let it continue because it would piss me the **** off. I'm not a touchy feely person and certainly don't want unwanted **** like that. If your superiors don't take complaints seriously then that will just set them up down the road for a huge failure that may cost their jobs. Of course, you not saying anything is why she will continue to do it to you and others until someone gets over it and does report her ***.
How about this......everyone keeps their ******* hands to themselves in the work place, or outside if you are not sure the person wants to be touched. How about if you are unsure of how certain people around will take off color comments you may make in the work place, you don't make them. Just around those you are sure understand you and don't take offense. Holy ****, I am not easily offended by comments, but even I get you can't just say whatever the hell you want in a professional setting or you can get in trouble.